Naaman, an army commander with leprosy, got angry when the prophet Elisha did not even come to the door before giving him a message to wash in the Jordan. People got irate when Jesus pointed out favors denied among the Israelites but granted to others. In a parable, Jesus described a Pharisee with an attitude of superiority and a sinner who prayed to God for mercy. When things go wrong, do we blame God for not doing more or ourselves for doing too little when it comes to loving and forgiving beyond our comfort zone?